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What are the legal options to make a friend, romantic partner, or adult family member move out?
Legal options for a housing provider to make an adult household member move out include:
- Negotiating a move-out agreement without going to court,
- Evicting a tenant, subtenant, or other occupant (learn about Written eviction notices and How eviction cases work), and
- Filing for an Order of Protection, which can grant exclusive possession of the home.
These options apply to friends, romantic partners, and adult family members. They do not apply if the housing provider is married to the person they want to move out.
Is it legal for a housing provider to ask a friend, romantic partner, or adult family member who lives with them to move out?
Yes, a housing provider can ask an adult who lives with them to leave. If the person agrees and moves out, there is no need to serve written notice or go to eviction court. Learn more about Negotiating a move-out agreement without going to court.
When an adult refuses to move out, the housing provider must use the eviction process. Unless the parties reach an agreement, the housing provider must:
- Serve any required written eviction notices and wait the required amount of time (learn more in Written eviction notices),
- Go to court to ask a judge to enter an eviction order (learn more in How eviction cases work), and
- Schedule the eviction with the sheriff's office.
Sometimes, being asked to leave is related to abuse:
- A person is asked to leave because they are causing harm in the shared living situation, or
- A housing provider is asking a person to leave or threatening to evict them as part of a pattern of abuse or control.
In these situations, contact:
When can household members get an Order of Protection against someone they live with?
People in shared living situations can file for an Order of Protection against other household members who are causing harm. A judge can enter an emergency Order of Protection. In an Order of Protection case, a judge may:
- Grant exclusive possession of the home, or
- Limit contact or access within the home.
Learn more from:
- The Illinois Domestic Violence Hotline at (877) 863-6338, or
- The National Domestic Violence Hotline at (800) 799-7233.
A tenant who needs to move for safety reasons may also have the right to end a lease early under the Illinois Safe Homes Act. This law allows qualifying tenants to terminate a lease without penalty when specific safety conditions are met. Learn more about Housing protections for survivors of domestic violence, dating violence, stalking, and sexual assault.
Can a housing provider lock out a friend, romantic partner, or adult family member who lives with them?
No, lockouts are illegal even when the person being forced out is a friend, romantic partner, or adult family member.
Lockouts are situations where a housing provider:
- Prevents a person from accessing their unit or room, or
- Makes the person’s living space unsafe or unlivable.
Housing providers who have personal conflicts with an adult living with them cannot lock that person out. The law about lockouts still applies when an adult lives with a housing provider as:
- Friends,
- Romantic partners who are not married to each other, or
- Family members or relatives.
Learn more about Lockouts and emergency rental repairs.
Does a lease exist if a friend, partner, or adult family member is invited to move in and nobody writes down a rental agreement?
Yes, a spoken (oral) agreement to let an adult move in can create a lease. Friends, romantic partners who are not married to each other, and adult family members can enter into leases that are covered by landlord -tenant laws. When the only agreement is spoken, this type of arrangement is usually a month-to-month tenancy.
In a month-to-month tenancy:
- The person who moves in is expected to pay their share of rent or living expenses on a monthly basis,
- Either person can end the arrangement, and
- The housing provider must give written notice to end the agreement (learn more in Ending a lease).
When a lease exists, the housing provider must also follow rules for written eviction notices before evicting a person who:
- Does not pay their share of rent or living expenses on time (learn more in Dealing with unpaid rent), or
- Engages in criminal activity (learn more in Addressing lease violations).
For more details, read Written eviction notices and How eviction cases work.
What rights does an adult living in a family member's property have if they are told to move out?
Adults living in a family member's property who are told to move out can:
- Negotiate a move-out agreement without going to court,
- Participate in an eviction case filed against them, and
- Live in the property unless a judge orders otherwise.
In Illinois, evictions must be done by the sheriff. The sheriff requires a judge's order allowing the eviction. It is illegal for a housing provider to force a person out, even if the person living in their property is an adult family member. The housing provider must obtain an eviction order from a judge, and the sheriff must carry out the eviction.
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Is being a housing provider's adult child, sibling, grandchild, or other relative a defense to eviction?
No, adults cannot defend against eviction on the grounds of being family members or relatives. The eviction process applies to adult family members living in a relative's home who:
- Have spoken (oral) or written permission to live in the property,
- Received permission from someone with the legal right to live there, such as a property owner or tenant,
- Do not own or share legal ownership of the property, and
- Are not married to the housing provider.
Children cannot be eviction defendants. Eviction cases must be dismissed and sealed if they name:
- Minors (children under 18 years old), or
- People who were minors when the lease was signed.
Minors who are named in eviction cases can also seek damages (sue for money).
Can a person evict their spouse in an eviction case?
No, eviction is not the right process for one half of a married couple to evict the other spouse. Eviction cases apply when one person has a stronger legal right to control the use of the property. When people are legally married to each other, their rights to shared property are usually equal.
Spouses can resolve the use of property in other types of cases:
- Filing for an Order of Protection, which can grant exclusive possession of the home, when a spouse is causing harm, and
- Filing for legal separation or divorce (learn more about Legal separation and Dividing property and debt in a divorce).
For help with questions about removing a spouse from shared property, use Get Legal Help.
Who can help me figure out questions about eviction?
For help with legal questions about eviction, use Get Legal Help or contact:
- Eviction Help Illinois statewide at (855) 631-0811, or
- Cook County Legal Aid for Housing and Debt in Cook County at (855) 956-5763.
When safety is a concern in shared living situations, including roommates, romantic partners, and adult family members who are part of the same household, contact:
- The Illinois Domestic Violence Hotline at (877) 863-6338, or
- The National Domestic Violence Hotline at (800) 799-7233.
Learn more about Protection from abuse.
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